BDSM Test Calculator – Discover Your Personality in Kink

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Discover your preferences and compatibility with BDSM practices

1. Does the thought of dominance or submission excite you?

I crave taking charge. I enjoy letting someone else lead. I like being equals. I’m not sure yet.

2. Have you ever wanted to be tied up or restrain someone?

Both! I’d love to try everything. Just being tied up sounds fun. I’d rather be the one tying. Not interested in restraint.

3. How do you feel about consensual spanking during intimacy?

Love it and want more! Fine with a little bit, nothing harsh. Rather not. Never really thought about it.

4. Would you try using blindfolds, masks, or hoods in the bedroom?

Absolutely, sensory play excites me. Maybe, but I need trust first. I’d prefer to see everything. That’s not for me.

5. Does the idea of giving or receiving commands turn you on?

Yes, it makes things hotter. A little, in the right moment. Not interested in that. I’m unsure.

6. How open are you to incorporating bondage gear, like cuffs or rope?

Very open—I want to try everything. Open to some basics, nothing intense. Prefer to keep it gear-free. Haven’t thought about it.

7. Are you interested in impact play (paddles, riding crops, floggers)?

Love experimenting with different sensations. Willing to try, but gently. No, too extreme for me. Not sure.

8. Would you experiment with sensation play, like ice, wax, or feathers?

Yes, the variety is exciting. Some things, but not all. Prefer to keep it simple. Haven’t considered it.

9. Do you find the idea of sexual power exchange appealing?

Very appealing. Sometimes, depending on the partner. Not really. I’m still undecided.

10. Are “safe words” essential for you when exploring new activities?

Always, safety comes first. Only for really intense play. Don’t really see the need. Not sure what a safe word is.

11. Would you feel comfortable exploring pet play or age play roles?

Totally! Sounds playful and fun. Maybe, with limits. Not for me. Haven’t really explored those ideas.

12. Have you fantasized about being punished or punishing your partner?

Yes, it’s one of my big fantasies. Occasionally, when the mood is right. Not at all. I’m not sure how I’d feel.

13. Does the idea of verbal humiliation or praise during sex excite you?

Yes, both can be intense. Prefer praise to humiliation. I like things quiet. Haven’t experienced it yet.

14. Would you like to have your movements or actions controlled?

Definitely, powerlessness is hot. Sometimes, but I need some freedom. Not comfortable with that. Not sure how I’d react.

15. Do you enjoy teasing or being teased for extended periods?

Teasing is the best part. In moderation, sure. I’d rather get right to it. I don’t know.

16. How important is explicit negotiation before trying something new?

Absolutely necessary every time. Sometimes, for bigger things. I prefer unspoken understanding. I haven’t really thought about it.

17. Would you ever try consensual non-consent or “ravishment” fantasy?

Yes, huge turn-on. Maybe, if carefully negotiated. Not for me—need control. I’m unsure.

18. Have you considered public play or semi-public exhibitionism?

It really excites me. I’d like to try something discreet. Only in private. No interest.

19. Would you allow your partner to make rules for you outside the bedroom?

That sounds thrilling. Maybe, if the rules are light-hearted. Only in sexual contexts. Not interested.

20. Are you interested in discipline, chores, or tasks as play?

Yes, give me something to work for! Maybe some playful tasks. No, that’s not for me. Not sure.

21. Do you find the idea of giving up control of your pleasure appealing?

I love being at someone else’s mercy. Only with full trust. I’d rather stay in control. I don’t know yet.

22. How do you feel about marks, bruises, or reminders from play?

I like having marks—proof of fun. Only if they fade quickly. No visible evidence, please. I’m unsure.

23. Would you like to use restraints, collars, or leashes during intimacy?

Very interested—love the symbolism. Maybe, if it’s not too intense. Rather keep it simple. Haven’t tried, but maybe open.

24. Have you fantasized about roleplaying authority figures (e.g., boss, officer)?

Absolutely, authority turns me on. Sometimes, in specific scenarios. Not interested. Haven’t really thought about it.

25. Does the use of gags or speech restriction excite you?

Yes, not being able to speak is thrilling. A little, but it can be overwhelming. Not comfortable with that. Never considered it.

26. How do you feel about watching or being watched during play?

Both ideas are hot! Maybe, with someone I trust. Prefer ultimate privacy. Not really sure.

27. Would you enjoy being dressed up or dressing up your partner for scenes?

Definitely, costumes are fun. Sometimes, if we’re both in the mood. Would rather skip the dress-up. Haven’t tried it, but might.

28. Are you comfortable with aftercare and emotional debrief after intense play?

Totally, it’s essential! Sometimes, if things get intense. Prefer to keep things casual after. I’m new to aftercare.

29. Do you find group or polyamorous BDSM play intriguing?

Yes, group dynamics sound interesting. Maybe, but only in fantasy. No, I like one-on-one play. Not sure how I feel.

30. What’s your preferred balance between romance and roughness in the bedroom?

More roughness, less sweetness. 50/50 mix is ideal. Prefer sweet and gentle. It changes with my mood.

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